This is why it’s not a good idea to steal someone’s husband

1. People Will Judge You.
Those who get involve with married people will find themselves in a situation where they are constantly judged and booed by the people around them. The people don’t know the real situation, yes. But the point is, when you become someone’s lover, you become a “home-wrecker” in other people’s eyes. People will always root for the wife or the husband and never for a mistress and you can never change it. That is the fact of life and you just have to deal with it. You chose to be a mistress so you need to accept that people will judge you no matter what. If you go out and buy some clothes, people will have something to say about you. Worse, the humiliation of it all once the wife or the husband learns about your existence and confronts you in front of the people…that is something you constantly need to get ready for.

2. The Person Can Never Be Yours.
As a lover, you will never feel that you belonged to each other. There will always be this nagging feeling inside that tells you this person is not here to stay. He can never be yours. You just don’t have the right to claim him because he is not yours in the first place. Of course, we cannot own a person because we are all equal and free but when a couple is married, they can at least claim to themselves that they belong together and that they are made for each other. As a lover, you can never feel that way towards the person. You can never demand for him to stay every night even if he wants to. He will always go home where he belongs – to his wife and family.
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3. You Will Always HaveSourcede.
If you are involved with a married person, you have to live your life in secret especially in matters concerning the relationship. You will never have the pleasure of meeting his friends and family. He can never show you off to the world. You cannot go out holding hands and being sweet. When you have to date, you need to go to places where you both do not know anyone (which is not bad, really) but the truth is, your relationship should remain a secret otherwise that will be the end of you and that is very exhausting. We all want to be loved in a way that we can be proud of. We all want to love carelessly and openly and as a lover, that is something you can’t do. The moment you let your relationship out in the open will be the moment you will lose each other and that is something you cannot risk if you want to keep the illicit relationship.
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4. You Cannot Have A Future With The Married Person
Say goodbye to a bright future ahead of you when you get involved with a married person. The person may support you financially and give you a place to live but a future of you two being together all the time and being happy and free is not going to happen as long as the other person remains married. The time that you spend together will always be limited no matter how you love each other. Even if the person says he or she loves you, you can never be certain because you know in your heart that he or she will still leave you and go back to the family. You cannot marry an already married person. Unless they will get divorce but even then, there can still be legal implications against you.